kahwin oh kahwin...

Dalam cerita hindustan ke, cerita orang putih ke bila ada wedding selalunya cam senang je die punya preparation kan?

pilih sari kat kedai, tup tup da siap jadi baju pengantin..

pilih gaun kat kedai, tup tup da siap beli bawak balik and dapat yang cantik gila vogue the vass..

Bila nak pilih baju tu semua orang very happie and cheerful sambil usik-usik bride to be tu kan?

pastu pengantin tu tersipu malu malu kucing dan seterusnya hari perkahwinan, kahwin, keliling api, or walk on aisle to the altar and you may kiss the bride..

END OF THE STORY!

I as a very naive and innocent child used to think that is what marriage was all about

but as I grow up..and with my brother wedding coming soon..

.my perspective change 360 degree..

it wasn't as easy as that and it much much more complicated!

when it comes to preparing for a wedding, every inches of the wedding you have to explore..

from tarikh and hari, to makanan yang akan disediakan dan berlanjutan kepada doorgift para tetamu.

baju pengantin tak payah cerita la kan..sebab boutique pengantin dan mak andam sekali da pening nak cater to every whim of the bride and groom to be tu..

lengan baju pengantin pendek sikit pon bising, kain x siap lagi bising, samping panjang seciput pon nak bising..

 jangan la cerewet sangat sayang.. Zahnita model baju pengantin tu pon lengan dia senteng sikit, so it's not really a big deal..

but kalo nak perfect, sew it yourself, will you??

or maybe suruh Hatta Dolmat Or if you filthy rich then  Rizalman will do the job for you..

cuma jangan berair hidung, mata and ketiak di saat bill dilayangkan kedepan muka anda..

Makanan!! oh it's a necessities, apalah majlis kahwin tanpa makanan?? sungguh tak lengkap

catering or gotong royong kampung is really up to you.

just yang perlu make sure makanan cukup dengan jumlah kehadiran..

ini untuk elakkan orang mengata, 'makanan rumah die aritu tak cukup tetamu nak makan'

NOT GOOD!!

Kad kahwin, super perlu!!

bila memilih kad kahwin, janganlah nak berfashion and style sangat sampai nak bayar RM1.00 satu, 

apa you ingat you anak datuk tauke balak Sabah??

buat kad kahwin ikut kemampuan and janganlah nak canang, saya nak design yang ini, beli kat sini je, tempat lain tak main la tapi nanti end up print je? what is that??

simple and cantik da lah, sebab bukannya orang nak frame lepas tu, orang buang je..

nak ikut macam nie ke?

sayang, you not Kim Kardashian!!

Plus, kita orang Islam kan digalakkan supaya jangan membazir.

So apa yang I nak sampaikan is simply that when it come to wedding, preparation harus jitu supaya orang tak mengata and yang penting, jangan cakap lebih je and end up habuk pon tarak..

write that on a piece of paper, memorize it that eat it..